My journey hasn’t been easy. I grew up in the shadow of loss, grief, and silence. When my oldest brother died at 17, my family unraveled. We stopped speaking—not just for days or weeks, but for nearly a decade. That silence left a hole in me I didn’t know how to fill. I turned to alcohol, tobacco, and porn to cope, numbing the pain and avoiding the truth I was too afraid to face. By the end of my 20s, I hit rock bottom.

My marriage fell apart, and I had to confront the life I’d been living—the life that was breaking me.

But I didn’t stay there. Something in me knew there had to be more. I chose to step into the fire, face my grief, and rebuild myself from the ground up. It wasn’t easy, and it wasn’t pretty. But through that pain, I found clarity. I found purpose. And I found connection—not just to others, but to myself and my truth.

Now, I’m living a life I once couldn’t imagine. I’m engaged to the love of my life, deeply connected to community and living a life of presence. Together, we’re raising our 9-month-old son, who reminds me every day of the man I’ve become and the legacy I’m building. My mission now is to guide men who, like me, are ready to confront their pain, break free from destructive cycles, and create lives of power, purpose, and deep connection. This is the work I’m called to do, and I’m honored to walk this path with you.